What is Child Abuse?

Child Abuse can be broken down into four distinct categories:

• Physical abuse

• Sexual abuse

• Emotional/Psychological abuse

• Neglect

KNOW THE SIGNS:

 

Developmental

  • Failure to thrive

  • Delayed physical development

  • Speech disorders

  • Attachment issues, such as seeking comfort and attention from others or difficulty forming relationships

 

Physical

  • Lack of adequate supervision, nutrition, shelter

  • Poor hygiene

  • Rashes and skin abrasions

  • Bruises or fractures

  • Frequently home alone or without appropriate supervision

 

Educational

  • Infrequent attendance in school

  • Excessive tardiness

  • Lack of school supplies

  • Incomplete or missing homework or school forms

 

Medical

  • Unattended medical or dental needs

  • Regular illnesses

 

Behavioral

  • Low self-esteem

  • Behavior extremes, such as appearing overly passive or very aggressive

  • Substance abuse

  • Fear of adults 

 

Myths of Child Abuse

MYTH #1:   It’s only abuse if it’s violent.

Fact:   Emotional abuse, Sexual abuse, and Neglect are also forms of abuse.

MYTH #2:   Only bad people abuse their children. 

Fact:   Many abusers have been victims themselves, and don’t know any other way to parent; others may be struggling with mental health or substance abuse problems. 

MYTH #3:   Child abuse doesn’t happen in “good” families. 

Fact:   Child abuse crosses all racial, economic, and cultural lines. 

MYTH #4:   Most child abusers are strangers. 

Fact:   Often, abusers are family members or others close to the family.

MYTH #5:   Most children do something to cause the abuse to occur. 

FACT:   The child is always the victim. The responsibility for the abuse lies with the adult.

When a Child Discloses Abuse:

  • Remain calm. Do not express shock, panic, or disbelief.

 

  • Do not interview the child.

 

  • Do listen. Ask just enough questions to know how to protect your child.

 

  • Reassure the child they have done the right thing by telling you.

 

  • Make the child feel safe.

 

  • If you get upset, your child will get upset.

 

  • Do not make promises you cannot keep.

 

  • Do not promise a child you will not tell.

 

  • Explain to the child that you need to make sure they are alright and are safe.

 

 

  • Do not contact the abuser.

 

  • If this is an emergency, call 911.

Frequently Asked Questions:

What are the objectives of One Place of the Shoals?

To provide co-located and coordinated victim services under one roof.

How do I get help?

Visit One Place, located at 200 West Tennessee Street, Florence, AL 35630.

Do I need an appointment?

Appointments are not required on the initial visit.

May I bring my children with me for support?

Yes! We want you to feel comfortable talking with us, so we have a playroom full of toys and books for your children. We also provide counseling and other services for child victims and witnesses of violent crimes.

May I bring a friend with me for support?

Yes! Your friend or family member is welcome; however, for our clients’ privacy, only those seeking services may enter secure areas.

How much does it cost?

All services at One Place are provided free of charge.

May I start the process of filing for a protection order?

Yes. We have legal professionals and staff on site to advocate for you and assist you in drafting documents for a protection order.

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